{"id":988,"date":"2011-03-22T13:21:20","date_gmt":"2011-03-22T07:51:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.khaitan.org\/blog\/?p=988"},"modified":"2011-03-22T21:20:45","modified_gmt":"2011-03-22T15:50:45","slug":"365-connections","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.khaitan.org\/blog\/2011\/03\/365-connections\/","title":{"rendered":"365 Connections"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-989\" style=\"margin-right:5px; margin-bottom:5px;\" title=\"feynman-diagram-tattoo-1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.khaitan.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/feynman-diagram-tattoo-1-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"feynman-diagram-tattoo-1\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/>In the last 24 months or so after being ensconced in Bangalore&#8217;s weather, complaining about it at times, I lost touch with people.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t take that statement literally. I have met or chatted with 500+ entrepreneurs and added 1500+ connections. A lot of these discussions were single-shot.<\/p>\n<p>While I added these &#8220;connections&#8221;, I lost touch with many whom I could have continued to maintain the links. Old friends, colleagues, extended family. A lot of new connections I could have solidified from the single-shot to people where there is an ongoing life-long conversation. It never happened. I was too busy being on the altar. There are emails waiting for my replies, there are unopened facebook pings and others I have ignored totally. This is bad and weakening.<\/p>\n<p>On one side, I was (and continues today) gathering lots of &#8220;connections&#8221;, on the other, the stronger sub-graphs are being rendered non-traversable. I fear they would become weaker as life goes on.<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday night, I decided to rework the connections. Today, few hours ago, I did the 1st call and shall continue everyday. If you happen to get a call from me, totally out of blue, it&#8217;s not that I&#8217;m bean counting, but I do care about re-strengthening the connection.<\/p>\n<p><em>The picture is the famous Feynman diagram (someone\u00a0tattooed\u00a0it in his arm!); where an electron traveling from Point A to Point B happens to bump into a photon and is found to be at two places at the same time. Guess, as humans, we don&#8217;t need that subatomic experiment and want to be found at only one place at one time! Picture via <\/em><a style=\"font-style: italic;\" href=\"http:\/\/talklikeaphysicist.com\/2008\/physics-tattoo-tuesday-feynman-diagram-tattoo\/\">talklikeaphysicist<\/a><em>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the last 24 months or so after being ensconced in Bangalore&#8217;s weather, complaining about it at times, I lost touch with people. Don&#8217;t take that statement literally. I have met or chatted with 500+ entrepreneurs and added 1500+ connections. A lot of these discussions were single-shot. While I added these &#8220;connections&#8221;, I lost touch [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[259],"tags":[262,261,260],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.khaitan.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/988"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.khaitan.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.khaitan.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.khaitan.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.khaitan.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=988"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/www.khaitan.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/988\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":996,"href":"https:\/\/www.khaitan.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/988\/revisions\/996"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.khaitan.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=988"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.khaitan.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=988"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.khaitan.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=988"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}